Seduction advice: why you need it

Many people don't think they need seduction advice, mostly because they are shy or because they believe that such advices are only for "losers" and they do not want to be labelled as such. The truth is that seduction advice is no different from other kind of professional advice such as legal, medical or financial advice. When we need information about a topic, we have two choices: 1- find a book or another kind of publication about that topic, 2- ask someone, preferably a professional. The second option is usually the best one not only because a professional is a repository of knowledge and experience, but because he or she can also answer our peculiar questions, a thing that books can't do.

Someone may argue that being able to seduce a woman or a man is a sort of God's gift, you have it or you don't. This assertion is partially true. There are people that are natural-born seducers, they are able to attract anyone in any situation, they are charismatic and the most impressive thing is that they do not have think about what to say or what to do to reach this goal, it's part of their nature.

Unfortunately, most of us have to struggle to obtain comparable results. It's like playing the piano, someone can do it naturally while others, the great majority, have to train each day to gain the same fluidity and precision, but with time and constancy they can reach the same results. Human beings are intelligent primates, they can learn anything (well, almost).

You can learn to play the piano, to program a computer, to pilot an airplane...so why wouldn't you be able to learn how to "pick-up a woman or a man"? Researches and studies conducted by scientists in the last decades show that the seduction and courtship process is accompanied by precise and unequivocal behaviours and gestures, a sort of "seduction script" that the two people follow, line by line, and that takes them from being total strangers to the full intimacy.

Communication is the name of the game. Many of you already know that communication can be both verbal and nonverbal or body language. The courtship process is based for at least 70% on body language. This means that most of the communication between a man and a woman during courtship is not conveyed through the verbal channel but through facial expressions, gestures and postures. And this is a big problem, at least for men.

While woman are at ease with body language reading and production, because Mother Nature gave them this gift, men are completely "uncovered" from this point of view. They are stronger, they can program a video recorder or read a map better than a woman, but they are not able to understand body language and while this does not seem to be so important in everyday life, it becomes crucial during the seduction process.

The good news is that they can learn how to read and produce nonverbal language. With the help of a professional, they can learn the theory behind seduction and courtship and, consequently, the techniques to use to overcome their shortcomings and to enjoy interpersonal relationships with the opposite sex.

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